Palm Springs for Gay Men: Things to Do

There is so much to do for a gay man here in the Palm Springs area! This page should give our gay visitors (and, for sure, also us who live here) much inspiration to go out there and do things. We have a lot of suggestions for what can be sound and healthy, bad and dangerous, interesting and exciting, free and expensive, moving and romantic, fun and hilarious.

Updated 4/5/06

The list includes what we have come up with so far. More will be added when we think of it. You have probably ideas of a diversion or two: e-mail us suggestions, corrections, additions. We want this page to stay abreast of the continuous changes. With your input it will!

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The main concentrations of art galleries are found in Palm Canyon in Palm Springs and in El Paseo in Palm Desert. And there are plenty! And another way of acquiring art is at auctions. In early June each year, the Church of St Paul in the Desert (320-7488) hosts an 'Evening of Art Reception and Auction', and Gay Associated Youth (GAY) arranges an art auction in late November each year.

Artist's Way Workshop (327-3866) is breaking through to ultimate creativity for artists of all genres.

Alcoholics Anonymous has a Fine Arts League that has an open discussion meeting every Saturday between 6 and 7 PM at Plaza del Sol, 1555 South Palm Canyon #103. A small group - a Saturday evening alternative, and visitors are welcome. In Palm Springs
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There are auctions in our area all the time, big ones and small ones. There is a classic automobile auction each year in the Palm Springs Convention Center, which we will talk about when we pick up needed information about it. In fact, we'll add auctions to this list when we stumble upon them. Right now, we have three auctions for you: Please, make a point to come back to this item over time when we have more for you.
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Balloon Above the Desert (776-5785): Greet the sun or bid it farewell as you drift in beautiful desert skies in one of the most peaceful experiences of a lifetime. While floating effortlessly in a colorful hot air balloon, you will view breathtaking vistas of some of the most picturesque landscapes in California. Vineyards, polo fields, world famous golf courses, and exotic orchards are just a few of the unbelievable sights you will experience. Your flight direction is determined by the breeze. In Palm Desert

Dream Flights (321-5154): Sip champagne and drink in the views as you drift leisurely skyward aboard a colorful hot air balloon piloted by an informative and entertaining seasoned professional with a flawless safety record. Your flight will be one of the most memorable adventures of your life. There are both sunrise and sunset flights, floating over lush green golf courses and symmetrical farmlands with breathtaking views of the rugged Santa Rosa and San Jacinto mountains. In Rancho Mirage

Fantasy Balloon Flights (568-0997): Float gracefully above the desert beauty and exquisite country clubs with a bird's eye view of the majestic patchwork panorama of the Coachella Valley below. Depending on where the wind blows you, you might enjoy the sights of PGA West, the Indio polo fields, the Salton Sea, ancient Lake Cahuilla, Banning Pass, the San Andreas Fault, all surrounded by the Santa Rosa, San Jacinto, and Little San Bernardino Mountains. In Palm Desert
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We have a lot of gay bars, and you see them all described and depicted on our Gay Bars page. That said, bar happenings are changing so fast that it is impossible to keep an accurate list of what is going on, so you should contact the bar to verify that a must-see event will take place as scheduled. The general specialty of a given bar is more stable and therefore more reliable; however, there we have to deal with your perceptions, so we urge you to go there and find out about the atmosphere by yourself. Some things can not be described by anyone else but you, such as if your dream prince is there and what he expects you to do to him. Dress codes are usually not enforced: you are pretty much welcome anywhere whatever your outfit. The desert is a relaxed place! However, we have the law, and the law says NO INDOOR SMOKING, which is different from many other states. Therefore, most bars have a patio where you can smoke to your lungs' content, in good company.
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There is lots of gay baseball activity and there are baseball fields both in Palm Springs and in Cathedral City. In the latter, the Big League Dreams Sports Park (324-5600) was built in 1998 and comprises six huge baseball diamonds, many with painted-in bleachers filled with painted-in people to give the players a real big league experience. You may want to get in touch with the Desert Night Hawks (320-4379), which is the greater Palm Springs gay baseball club. They train or play on Thursdays at 7:30 PM at Big League Dreams Stadium in the Sports Park. In Cathedral City

Palm Springs has its own baseball stadium, Angels Stadium in Sunrise Park, which is best known to us as the festival venue during the Greater Palm Springs Pride celebrations in November. However, the Gay and Lesbian Softball League, that plays on Sunday afternoons starting in March under the aegis of the City of Palm Springs Parks Department, does not play there but rather on a field in Demuth Park. In Palm Springs

Every year, on the mid-January weekend, there is a nationwide gay softball tournament of national standing descending on Palm Springs. It is easily remembered as the Palm Springs Gay and Lesbian Winter Classic Softball Tournament, and it is arranged by the City of Palm Springs Recreation Division. In 2004, fields in Palm Springs (Demuth Park), Palm Desert (Civic Center and Olsen Field), and Thousand Palms (Community Park) were used for 100 teams from all over the country, playing 290 games during two weekend days. Registration on Friday night and awards ceremony on Sunday night took place at Blame It on Midnight (323-1200). This tournament and the concurrent Palm Springs International Film Festival (778-8979) certainly do to January what Christmas does to December: extend the use of those midwinter days.
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Palm Springs has six bike tours, covering more than 35 miles of trails. You can get a map from the Palm Springs Parks Department (323-8265), the Palm Springs Leisure Center (323-8272), and the La Quinta Community Services (777-7090). Maps and books about bicycling in Palm Springs and surroundings are also available in the bike shops. And don't forget to bring along plenty of water!
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While the official word is 'billiard', we always refer to it as 'pool' in spite of the confusion with the wet version we all love. There are many billiard parlors in our midst, but the ones that you find in the phone book are all straight. However, we dare say that each gay bar has pool tables, and they are popular and in use most of the time. Some bars sport full size tables; most use the slightly smaller bar version. And at least one bar uses its pool table for more purposes than just for pool play: how about as the stage for wet underwear contests?

Pool competition is arranged on a weekly basis:
  • On Mondays, Pool Tournament at Hunters Video Bar (323-0700) In Palm Springs
  • On Tuesdays at 8 PM, League Pool at Barracks Bar (321-9688) In Cathedral City
  • On Wednesdays at 8 PM, Open 8-ball Pool Tourney at Barracks Bar (321-9688) In Cathedral City
  • On Thursdays at 7 PM, Pool Tourney at Tool Shed Bar (320-3299) In Palm Springs
  • On Thursdays, Pool Tournament at Sidewinders Bar (328-9919) In Cathedral City
Now, what on earth will you be doing on Friday and Saturday night? Come to think of it, a gay man like you wouldn't have time for pool games on those nights, not in busy Palm Springs and Cathedral City...
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How about a game of bingo??? For most of us it might sound a bit too much like church hall fundraising, but that is not the case with the bingo played at Tool Shed Bar (320-3299). O-69 Bingo at the Shed is played every Monday night at 9 PM and also at noon on Wednesdays. All bets are off, and even you could win and also have fun. See you there. In Palm Springs
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There is Bridge and there is Bingo, which have their own space here. And of course there are the Casinos, which all offer plenty of board games. But how about all other organized sit-down-and-play-a-game offerings, apart from your own living room?

What comes to mind is the monthly Board Game Nights that are arranged by the gay hiking club Great Outdoors of Palm Springs (Roger at 416-2673). They usually gather on the first Monday of the month at 6:30 PM either in a club room somewhere or in a member's private home. The guys are very nice (and in great shape, too).
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The Moorten Botanical Garden Showplace & Cactus Nursery (327-6555) displays more than 3000 species of desert plants from around the world. The garden also serves as a bird sanctuary. It has nothing of the grandeur of the New York Botanical Gardens or those in Rio de Janeiro, London, or San Francisco, but in its own right it gives you, within a few steps, more desert vegetation experience than a hundred daylong hikes. To really see the whole garden, count on spending up to two hours there -- but you can march through it in 20 minutes if you feel rushed. In Palm Springs

Not a public botanical garden at all, but your webmasters' poolside is adorned, like many poolsides herebouts, with a hibiscus that blooms when much of the country is dusted with the white powder. We took this picture of our blooming hibiscus right after the Boston Blizzard, on February 27, 1999. So to our dear Boston friends: Eat your heart out! (Or come out west and enjoy!) In Palm Springs
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Yes, there are times when we want to be indoors, amazing as it may sound! How about bowling? Palm Springs Lanes (324-8204) are not located in Palm Springs but very close, and you may want to know that the Great Outdoors club arranges gay bowling there for its members once a month, usually on the last Monday from 2 to 4 PM. In Cathedral City

Another bowling venue is Fantasy Lanes Bowling Center (342-5000). In Indio
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Strictly speaking, bridge is a board game, and this page has a section on just board games. However, the game of bridge is regarded as something a bit more "refined" than the usual games. You need some learning in order to play it, maybe from a book, better in a class. We have gay bridge classes from time to time at the Desert Pride Center (327-2313). You have to check out if and when they are scheduled - last we heard, there were Beginning and Middle Bridge classes given on Saturdays from 2 to 4 PM.

For those that have played a bit, there is a gay Bridge Tournament every fall, arranged by the local chapter of the International Association of Gay and Lesbian Bridge Clubs; the location is a ballroom of one of our big hotels.
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We actually created this section for the biggest fundraiser for Gay Associated Youth (GAY). Most fundraisers are recognition events, but this event would not fit in there. Liza Minnelli told us that life is a cabaret, and that may be why the Gay Associated Youth (GAY) Cabaret came about for their fundraiser. It takes place at Le Vallauris in the form of a brunch in mid-May, with entertainment and elegance and fun. Tickets ($150) can be purchased by calling the Gay Associated Youth Center (776-1744).

Now that we have this tempting section, we should give you the venue for most gay cabarets: Heaven, PS (416-0950). Cabaret performances usually on weekends during the winter.
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For going out camping together with other gay men, the local gay hiking club Great Outdoors of Palm Springs (Roger at 416-2673) is a safe bet. They are arranging camping trips a few times each year, often in conjunction with other clubs under the same umbrella. Locations vary: Joshua Tree National Park, Idyllwild, Arizona, Lake Cahuilla come to mind. Their trips last for an extended weekend, but occasionally they camp out for a single night somewhere nearby. This is serious, "real" camping.

Now for camping that is really a form of partying. Very locally. Actually inside a gay resort - so much for mountain lions and rattlesnakes... "Danny's All Night Tent Party" is a summer regular, in July or August, at Cathedral City Boys Club (CCBC) (324-1350). There have been other tent parties over the years, but they were a flash in the pan: A "Slumber Party" has been held on the premises of Desert Palms Inn Resort (324-3000) and a tent party with tent judging and other official hoopla has been visited upon at Warm Sands Villas (323-3005) under the control of Tool Shed Bar (320-3299). For all these events, you bring your own tent and also handle the tent erection, something that should sound familiar to any gay boy.
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Although you can do almost anything in Palm Springs, there's one thing you shouldn't try: train spotting. You'd get very frustrated if you went down to the railroad tracks to watch the trains pass by while trying to spot an engine you never saw before, jotting down its serial number in your tattered notebook and then showing off to your buddies -- had they seen that particular engine, eh? Train spotting might have been fun in the twenties and thirties, maybe even forties and fifties, with trains passing by all the time; these days there are a few freight trains passing by Palm Springs train station each day but only two passenger trains, and they show up at 1 and 5 AM to boot! Instead, we invite you to the sport of car spotting, and that you can do right downtown, say at Tahquitz and Palm Canyon while sipping a cup of Starbucks coffee. You'll see many unusual cars; vintage car ownership is blossoming in the desert, and many are taken out for a ride now and then. But those cars is really not what you should focus in on; no, try to spot this fab car, a white 1995 (vintage as well) Hyundai Accent with the license plate GYMBRAT. Be the first one on your block to spot it, and then you'll also have seen Gymbrat, the Webmaster of www.hotman.com, your favorite web site. Give up your coffee and come over and say hello! Maybe he'll join you for your coffee or give you a ride. Notice the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) logo on his car? He was a member of that gay organization, but then came the election of 2000. The HRC endorsed over 30 congressional candidates just in Califonia, but our candidate Ron Oden, running against Republican congresswoman Mary Bono (Sonny Bono's widow), did NOT get the HRC nod. They preferred to ignore that he was one of the very few openly gay major party congressional candidates, and when they did that after earlier having endorsed the moderately gay-hostile Alfonse d'Amato over the superbly gay-friendly Dick Schumer in New York, Gymbrat diligently peeled off his HRC label. (Today, Dick Schumer is a successful U S Senator and Ron Oden is our Mayor, the only black gay Mayor in the country.)
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There are several excellent venues hereabouts for getting rid of unneeded funds, or, as is said to happen, becoming filthy rich. Our casinos are all owned by the Native American Nation, which, after centuries of getting a raw deal, finally hit the jackpot. The wonderful part of it is that the money that the Native Americans are getting does not cost anybody anything: they are performing a service that their customers are perfectly willing to pay for. Here are the biggest casinos in our area:
  • Spa Resort Casino (883-1000). A beautiful building from 2003 right in the middle of town, classic southwest architecture, total Las Vegas ambience inside. You hear the sound of money being lost from everywhere (and occasionally also the familiar sound of a jackpot win), and there are several good restaurants around the perimeter. In Palm Springs
  • Agua Caliente Casino (321-2000). A modern style building from 2001, located right in the center of nowhere. Before you step inside, look at the buildings and consider that only six months passed between the first shovel in the ground and the official opening! Great casino feeling with its peculiar sound effects, and good restaurants. In Rancho Mirage by Freeway I-10
  • Fantasy Springs Casino (342-5000) or (800-827-2946). Twice the size of the previous casinos, and with a theater with pretty big names on the bill at times. In Indio by Freeway I-10
  • Trump 29 Casino (775-5566 or 866-TRUMP29). Another huge casino with Donald Trump's name emblazoned on it - but it is still a Native American business. In Coachella
  • Augustine Casino (391-9500. In Coachella
  • Casino Morongo. (800-252-4499) 15 miles northwest of Palm Springs by Freeway I-10
We hope you'll win, big. If you don't (it happens), you should remember that someone's got to pay for the chandeliers. It may as well be you.
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The gay community is constantly giving to different charity causes, and since many years the AIDS support has been first and foremost. The Desert Aids Project (323-2118) and the Aids Assistance Program (AAP) are the two largest organizations in this area. Many events, big and small, serve as fundraisers for the all-important help to people with AIDS.

But there are fundraisers for other causes as well, and here are a few examples of fun bar events that all help out in their own way:
  • The Wreath Auction at Streetbar, PS (320-1266) in early December sees many elaborate wreath creations bring in good money. The wreaths are donated during the preceding weeks and are displayed at Streetbar until the auction.
  • The Christmas Stocking Stuffing at Tool Shed Bar (320-3299) on a December evening is a gathering of wrapped Christmas gifts from its patrons for distribution to needy families in time for the holidays.
  • The Toys for Tots at Streetbar, PS (320-1266) functions also in December in the same manner to spread happiness to kids who otherwise would not get much for Christmas.
The joy the recipients of these gifts get is only superseded by the joy felt by the givers when they let some of their surplus do some real good.
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How do we get in touch with each other purely via computer here in Palm Springs? Well, this site is one way. We carry many personal ads right here. While that's a definitely real way, it is not immediate. If you want to find him right now you need a chat room.

Yes, we have considered starting a chat room right here on "Palm Springs for Gay Men". But there are at least two organizations that are running chat rooms specifically for Palm Springs, so instead we recommend you, our friends, to turn to them.

At least two venues are organized for gay Palm Springs computer chatters:
  • GAY COM CHAT ROOM
    • 1. Go to "www.gay.com/pages/chat.shtml"
    • 2. Select "Men - Floor 1 (U.S. Pacific Locations)"
    • 3. Wait for the Gay Com Chat button to appear
    • 4. Select California: "Palm Springs" or "Palm Springs 2"
  • AOL CHAT ROOM
    • 1. Click on the "PEOPLE" icon on your AOL top menu
    • 2. Click on "Find a Chat" on the index list
    • 3. Click on the "Created by AOL Members" tab over the left window
    • 4. Highlight "Town Square" in the left window
    • 5. Click on either "Palm Springs M4M" or "Palm Springs M4M2" in the right window
Of course, these chat rooms are happy to include guys from other places, interested in meeting and chatting with us Palm Springs guys. Everything is possible, as you know all too well.
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Once in a while it can be a nice distraction to go to a City Council meeting. Most of us just file in and sit quietly in the specatator seats, absorbing all the mighty decisions being made, knowing that they all will affect us profoundly. But some of us may even have a brilliant idea that would deserve to be brought out for discussion, and in most city council meetings three minutes on the microphone are yours for the asking (or filling out a request form in the lobby). A session can be quite enjoyable and surely enlightening.

In the list below you will find the day and time of each city council meeting (meetings are spaced two weeks apart and sometimes more), and the telephone number to city hall for you to verify that there will indeed be a council meeting. Every city council hereabouts consist of five members, of whom one is also Mayor and one Mayor Pro Tem. In the lists of names of all city councilmembers below, the mayor appears first and the mayor pro tem second. Of course, the official website of each city is only a click away from you.
Palm Springs
(323-8299)
Wednesdays at 7 PM
  • Ronald Oden
  • Chris Mills
  • Ginny Foat
  • Mike McCulloch
  • Steve Pougnet
Cathedral City
(770-0340)
Wednesdays at 6:30 PM
  • George Stettler
  • Gregory S Pettis
  • Charles England
  • Kathy deRosa
  • Paul Marchand
Rancho Mirage
(324-4511)
Thursdays at 1 PM
  • G Dana Hobart
  • Ron Meepos
  • Harvey Gerber
  • Richard W Kite
  • Alan Seman
Palm Desert
(346-0611)
Thursdays at 4 PM
  • Robert A Spiegel
  • Buford A Crites
  • Jean M Benson
  • Jim Ferguson
  • Richard S Kelly
Indian Wells
(346-2489)
Thursdays at 1:30 PM
  • Mary T Roche
  • Percy Byrd
  • Rob Bernheimer
  • Ed Monarch
  • Conrad Negron Sr
La Quinta
(777-7000)
Tuesdays at 2 PM
  • Donald Adolph
  • Stanley Sniff
  • Ron Perkins
  • Terry Henderson
  • Lee Osborne
Indio
(342-6500)
Wednesdays at 6 PM
  • Jacquie Bethel
  • Melanie Fesmire
  • Michael H Wilson
  • Gene Gilbert
  • Ben Godfrey
Desert Hot Springs
(329-6411)
  • Matt Weyuker
  • Mary Stephens
  • Gary Bosworth
  • Hank Hohenstein
  • Will Pieper
Palm Springs also has a Human Rights Commission that holds a sometimes quite engaging Forum on alternating Thursdays at 6 PM in the City Council chamber. The other cities may also have similar additional commission meetings that are open to the public.
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College of the Desert (COD) (346-8041) serves as a stepping-stone into many four-year colleges and universities in the United States. COD is a comprehensive community college where students earn two-year Associate of Arts (A.A.) and Associate of Science (A.S.) degrees which transfer to four-year colleges and universities. COD has specific transfer agreements with the nearby University of California, Riverside and California State University, San Bernardino. Students can also earn occupational certificates in particular fields of study. There are short-term programs where students can gain skills in particular subjects leading to employment. COD offers over 60 degree programs and over 35 occupational certificate programs. In Palm Desert

The satellite campus of California State University San Bernardino (CSUSB), Palm Desert Campus (341-2883) offers upper-division and graduate programs for the convenience of students living in the Coachella Valley and Morongo Basin. Admissions and financial aid information, registration, and academic advising are also available locally. The Palm Desert campus' classrooms and office are located at 37500 Cook Street, Palm Desert, with additional classrooms at the Palm Desert campus annex located on the College of the Desert property, 43500 Monterey Avenue, Palm desert. Call 341-2883 for information about the campus and its programs and courses. In Palm Desert

Every year, adults like you make the decision to return to college to earn your education credential, undergraduate degree or graduate degree. The Coachella Valley campus of Chapman University (CUCVC) (341-8051) has been meeting the needs of adult students for over 40 years, offering high quality programs taught by academically rich and professionally accomplished faculty at convenient times and locations that allow you to pursue your career and education goals while juggling your busy schedule. A new term starts every 10 weeks! Plus, experience the Chapman difference -- individualized attention. Talk to our staff one-on-one and get the answers you need. No long lines. No treating you like a number. We are here to help you every step of the way from discussing and understanding your goals to class registration to academic advising and career counseling. For information, call 341-8051. In Palm Desert
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If you ever wonder how other guys see you, enter a contest and see how you place. The bars offer frequent opportunities for this. Sidewinders Bar (328-9919) holds two contests each month, one called Basket Contest and the other Wet Basket Contest - yes, there is a big difference between the two as you can imagine. They also arrange a Swim Suit Contest once a year, in July. In Cathedral City

And don't miss the monthly Mr Tool Chest Contest at Tool Shed Bar, PS (320-3299). In Palm Springs

If you would prefer to match up with your peers in a naked contest, you have an opportunity almost every month year round at Cathedral City Boys Club (CCBC), CC (324-1350). You can read more about this in the Nudity section on this page if you click here, and also see our pictures from such events elsewhere in this website. In Cathedral City
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According to estimates, almost half of the people in Palm Springs are gay. So wherever you go hereabouts there are gay men, singles and doubles and hordes. But that is too easy for the devoted public sex hunter. So Palm Springs has, just like any other respectable community, specific places for outdoor sleaze, but they do move around like a desert storm. Locations come and go. Turn to the Cruising for Sex website to find a decently updated description of the current places. There are locations where you should never sleaze: Ruth Hardy Park comes to mind, many respectable lives have been demolished there over the years. But everywhere else is NOT "safe" if that is what you thought: The police is usually gay-friendly, but California has its laws, and open-air sex or soliciting in public places is not allowed, if you thought so. If you remember always to keep safe, legally and medically, you will have a thrilling time!
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First of all, you should know about Boots in Squares (328-6303 or EMAIL HERE or 327-8684 or EMAIL HERE), Palm Springs gay square dance club, which both hosts dances and teaches square dancing. The club is 50 members strong and is a member of the International Association of Gay Square Dance Clubs. It welcomes dancers from all over the world to its monthly club dances as well as to its regular Monday night classes. Three dance skill levels: Mainstream, Plus, and A-1. Starting on the first Monday of January each year, the club arranges weekly classes in all three skill levels: Plus level from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, Mainstream level from 7:30 to 9 PM, and A-1 level from 9 to 10 PM. Both the monthly dances and the weekly classes take place in the Cathedral City Senior Center. In addition, Boots in Squares performs publicly a few times a year, such as at Palm Springs Pride.

Apart from the square dancing that is offered by Boots in Squares, there is dancing every night at Hunters Video Bar (323-0700) and Toucans Tiki Lounge (416-7584) and on selected nights at other gay bars, such as Ground Zero Bar (321-0031), Heaven (416-0950), and Sidewinders Bar (328-9919). Square dancing and traditional disco and country/western (and maybe even a menuet if you request it).

The purpose of many of the big parties held here is just to let you dance the night away: what is the White Party if not dancing? OK -- so it's mainly dancing, let's put it that way.

So, kick up your heels and enjoy!
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Talk, talk, talk, it is all talk and no action! Now, isn't that nice? In fact, we talk far too little, but that can be taken care of.

The Gay Men's Discussion Group meets (when we last checked) on Tuesdays from 7 to 8 PM at Desert Pride Center (327-2313). There is usually a theme, selected in advance by one of the participants, but once that theme is thrashed to death you can bring up anything else that is of interest to you. In Palm Springs

The Desert Pride Center also has a discussion group that pertains to themselves, namely their own volunteers. The Center rests mainly on volunteers, and if you are thinking of becoming one, yu are welcome to this discussion where the current volunteers discuss matters of interest. They meet once a month, on the last Tuesday from 5:30 to 6:30 PM (you better doublecheck), and we leave it to you to guess where they meet. In Palm Springs

Alcoholics Anonymous has a Fine Arts League that has an open discussion meeting every Saturday between 6 and 7 PM at Plaza del Sol, 1555 South Palm Canyon #103. A small group - a Saturday evening alternative, and visitors are welcome. In Palm Springs

Alcoholics Anonymous Gay Discussion Group arranges a "Manic Monday Meeting" at 8 PM every Monday at 1555 South Palm Canyon Drive #103. In Palm Springs
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In big cities with apartment living, dogs have a tough time getting the minimum of physical freedom to move around that they need, and so came about the idea of special parks for dogs, where they could be unleashed and free to run back and forth in packs with other dogs, as they instinctively do. It is quite a surprise to find dog parks in our area, where most dogs have plenty of backyards, but then again, the backyards are lonely and pooch needs soulmates.

Maybe there are many more, but we have found three doggie parks, one in Palm Springs and two in Palm Desert. The bigger dog park, 1.6 acres, is the one located in Palm Springs behind City Hall. It has a small part set aside for small dogs, so that their yappy barking doesn't disturb the bigger ones. Most of the park is one big lawn with some trees and water hydrants, and around it is a utilitarian gravel path with water fountains and trash cans with shovels, plus picnic tables and benches for the dogs' human companions (who, more often than not, tend to be gay men). Regrettably, the humans often spend too much time conversing with other humans to notice dog accidents that require removal with a fast shovel. The result: you have to watch very carefully where you walk, and also think of cleaning your pooch's paws after leaving. The park is surrounded by a high wrought-iron fence, artistically custommade with dog themes, well worth noticing. The only time the gates are locked is for a few weeks annually during resodding. In Palm Springs

We have never visited the doggie parks in Palm Desert, but they are located in the Civic Center Park (3/4 acre, lighted at dark, with a separate small dog area) and in Joe Mann Park (1/3 acre). Both parks are closed between 11 PM and dawn and also when they are resodded once a year. That's all we know; maybe we can ask you to contribute more information about these parks? In Palm Desert
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Offroad Rentals offers fun, self-guided tours on their quad vehicles in the sand of a large private desert area. They provide a variety of vehicles suited to the age and size of the individual, safety equipment, short instructional video, and hands-on instruction. The quads are relatively safe and simple to operate, and you will enjoy overviews of the ponds, wind mills, sand dunes and the Whitewater River for a great time. 4 miles west of Palm Springs on Highway 111
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This is earthquake country, and as long as little or no property damage is inflicted and nobody gets hurt, then these sporadic shakes are by many regarded as quite interesting. Back in 1992 we had two huge ones, albeit at some distance, only three hours apart, and after those we shook every few minutes for months. Lately there has been a dearth of earthquakes, but once in a while we do get a humble, pathetic rattle. The place to go when this occurs is (where else?) Internet, where you can see a live seismograph showing the ongoing quake, and afterwards verify what happened on a map and with detailed data. The map shown below is the real thing (created by USGS/Caltech/UCSD/USGS/UCB/UNR), showing you the current earthquake situation right now, but you must go to Caltech's own website to be able to get detailed information about a specific quake. If you are lucky, your earthquake thrills may exceed your hump thrills that day.
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When we talk of food here, it means restaurants. Of course you can cook at home, but that is not any different here than elsewhere, although it certainly is a worthwhile thing to do. Equip your kitchen with the bare essentials (from, say, The Alley in Palm Springs), acquire a couple of cookbooks (from, say, Barnes & Noble in Palm Desert), and buy some unprepared food (from, say, the Pavillion or Trader Joe's) and get to it, man! (These are totally unpaid for names, we just like those stores because they are arguably the top in their fields.)

But now we'll talk about the eateries. When we last counted them a few years ago, the Yellow Pages in the local telephone directory listed 382 restaurants. By any yardstick, that is a huge amount of choices for a hungry palate. And gay people are welcomed with open arms almost everywhere -- after all, we are a huge chunk of the population here. How do you choose among this abondanza of restaurants? The Yellow Pages? Driving down the street looking? Asking your friends? Or do you go to the Restaurant Guide right here on this website for not only ratings but also a hint about if a given restaurant is worth your money?

There are ways to stuff yourself without cooking and without having to choose a restaurant at all. An occasion, created for the good of charities, is the Evening of Song, Friendship, and Giving, arranged in May each year at the Riviera Resort by the Desert Aids Project (323-2118) In Palm Springs

And twice a month or so, restaurants are invaded by the members of the two major clubs here that cater to mature gay men (and their admirers). Reputedly, they enjoy eating more than even the indulgence that appeals to all of us, so why don't you join them?
  • Prime Timers of the Desert (318-9798) is a world-wide, non-profit social club for single and couples, mature men and their male admirers (age 21 and over). Meets throuhout the month for mixers, luncheons, dinners, golf, tennis, bridge, poker, and special events.
  • Club 300 (346-7447 or EMAIL HERE) was formerly called "Prime Timers of Palm Springs". For mature men and their admirers. Frequent social events aimed at singles and couples. Super friendly, small club with a cap of 300 members.
Isn't it wonderful to live in a place with high temperatures, so we don't have to eat much food?
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There is a world outside Palm Springs, so whether you live here or are a tourist here, you may want to go gallivanting to other Meccas. (Speaking of which, we literally do have a Mecca right here in our midst, between Indio and Salton Sea, but that is listed under 'Deportations' rather than under 'Excursions'.) You can get out of here either in an organized group or, of course, on your own.

For those of you who want to travel in a happy gay group and leave the details to others, there is the Rainbow Travel Club, which is an arm of the Desert Pride Center, PS (327-2313). The club started in May of 2004 to provide rock-bottom priced group travel opportunities for its members. At this writing in July 2004 the have had a 4-day trip to Grand Canyon and Sedona, and they have plans for Las Vegas, San Francisco, Napa Valley wine country, South America, France, Italy, Greece, and even a cruise.

There are many organized gay bus trips that you can simply sign up for when you feel in the mood. The destinations are interesting and the bus ride is fun and an opportunity to meet new friends. This is just a sample of trips that take off with some regularity:
  • Bullhead City, Arizona: Now and then, a bus leaves Tool Shed Bar (320-3299) and gets you in nice company to Bullhead City in Arizona, where you can enjoy gay bars, discos, and, across the river in Nevada, casinos. The bus returns to the Tool Shed a day or two later.
  • Getty Museum in Los Angeles: Each year, the Prime Timers of the Desert (318-9798) arranges a daytrip by bus for art lovers and their admirers. You get a few hours for the art, which is never enough, but then, there will be another trip next year.
  • San Diego Gay Pride: Toucans Tiki Lounge (416-7584) takes you there in late July on a very happy bus, and you will be back the same day. This is very convenient, unless you would like to extend the ambience of gay San Diego to a night of bars and hotel rooms, in which case you are out of luck.
  • Beach Party in Santa Monica: A day on the wonderful beach, followed by a great dinner at a nearby restaurant, is arranged by Streetbar (320-1266) every year in August. The bus brings you back late, tanned, and filled.
  • Rawhide: Bus trip for the adventurous leather crowd, arranged by Sidewinders Bar, CC (328-9919) in late August.
The places we want to mention for you to go on your own need much more space. Of course, you will be your own road guide, so we must tell you in so many words how to get there. (As in all other existing travel guides we tell you exactly how to get there but not a word about how to get back...)

Las Vegas (4 - 5 hours by car each way): Most people go to Las Vegas on the freeways (I-10 west to I-215 north to I-15 north to Las Vegas). We recommend a much nicer, 2-lane, fully paved, and a bit shorter road: From Palm Springs, go north on Indian Canyon Drive for some 13 miles until its end, where it hits highway 62. Turn right (north) on 62 and continue for some 35 miles until Adobe Road (traffic light) in Twentynine Palms. Fill gas for the desert crossing and then turn left (north) on Adobe and continue for some 2 miles until Amboy Road (traffic light). Turn right (east) on Amboy and continue for some 47 miles until its end, where it hits "National Trails Highway". Before that you'll have enjoyed going through white salt flats and seeing a black volcano cone to the left (you can actually go and climb it). Turn right (east) on "National Trails Highway" and continue for some 6 miles until Kelbaker Road (watch out for it). Turn left (north) on Kelbaker Road and continue for some 33 miles until Kelso (rail crossing). Before that you'll have enjoyed the enormous Kelso Sand Dunes on your left (you can drive up to them if you want). Turn right (east) on Kelso Cima Road and continue for some 19 miles along the rail tracks until Cima. In Cima, cross two train tracks and go straight ahead (Do NOT follow the I-15 sign to turn left onto Cima Road, NOT!), and continue on Morningstar Mine Road for some 15 miles until the end, where it hits Ivanpah Road. Turn left (north) on Ivanpah Road and continue for some 3 miles until the end, where it hits Nipton Road. Turn left (west) on Nipton Road and continue for some 4 miles until I-15. Turn right (north) on I-15 and fly into Las Vegas some 45 miles later. For Las Vegas you have a web site just like this one, and it will give you the gay bars, businesses, clubs & organizations, just what you need in that wild, exciting town.

San Diego (2 - 3 hours by car each way): Most people go to San Diego on the freeways (I-10 west to State 60 west to I-215 south to I-15 south to San Diego). But to really enjoy the ride, you should instead go over the Santa Rosa Mountains on a beautiful, winding, fully paved road. From northern Palm Springs the mileage is the same (but OF COURSE it takes longer time than the freeway), and if you start from, say, Palm Desert or Indio, you will drive some 20 miles less each way. You start off from Palm Desert, going south on State 74 (the Palms to Pines Highway), which winds itself up the steep mountain side with better and better views of the valley behind. After 45 minutes you turn left (south) on State 371 -- clearly marked, but you have to look out for it. 30 minutes later, at the end of that road you turn right (west) on State 79. Another 30 minutes later you'll hit I-15, onto which you turn left (south) and fly into San Diego an hour later. A web site just like this one gives you everything you need to know about Gay San Diego for a happy visit.

Idyllwild (an hour by car each way): Get away from the desert and breathe New Hampshire air for a fleeting moment. It is as easy as a one hour drive from Palm Springs. Go west, young man, on Highway 111 and onto Interstate 10 until you hit Banning, about 20 miles from your start. Get off at road 243, leading to Idyllwild. Follow it with care at first -- a right turn at an intersection is a bit obscure, and missing it lands you in prison at the end of the street. Soon the road starts climbing, offering great views, and slowly nature changes from real wild creosote bushes to real wild pine trees. It's about 25 miles from Banning to Idyllwild; don't stop when you think you are there -- it's another few miles until you are really there. It is an alpine village, with log cabin architecture and great peace, and its 5000 foot altitude makes it quite a change from Palm Springs. Do a little walk-around, maybe a meal at Cafe Idyllwild or whatnot, and when you are satisfied go back by completing the circle. Continue on the same road 243, which soon merges into highway 74 -- turn left at the intersection. The curvy road yields to a pampas-like terrain, and soon you forget that you are still quite high up. Well within an hour the road suddenly starts dropping, and you must stop at the first lookout, from where you have a fantastic view over the center part of the Coachella Valley with Palm Desert right below your feet. The road is now classic hairpins, nature changes back to desert, and then you are down in Palm Desert. The pictures you see here were taken by a longtime Idyllwild guy, who has a wonderful log cabin for you to stay in. (His website, www.jeffpalmer.com, has all the details.) But any way you spend your time up there you will have a wonderful visit.
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There are eight movie palaces with altogether around 75 screens scattered over the desert. That is an unbelievable amount of seats, and you should always bring someone with you -- otherwise you might find yourself all alone in the theater. Well, not quite, but 5 or 10 viewers is very common. Here are the movie palaces:
  • Camelot Theatres (2300 Baristo Road). Different repertoire: often films of interest to gay men. A typical "arts" theater. In Palm Springs
  • Century Theatres at the River (71800 Highway 111). In Rancho Mirage
  • Cinemark 10 (34491 Date Palm Drive). Cheaper, for movies coinciding with their release on video tape. In Cathedral City
  • Cinemas Palme d'Or (72840 Highway 111). In Palm Desert
  • Mary Pickford 14 (36850 East Civic Center Drive). In Cathedral City
  • Signature Theatres Metro 8 Indio (81725 Highway 111). In Indio
  • Signature Theatres Palm Springs (789 East Tahquitz Canyon Way). In Palm Springs
  • Signature Theatres Rancho Mirage 16 (Monterey Road and Dinah Shore Drive). In Rancho Mirage
What will you see? In most movie palaces exactly the same as in Fargo ND and Atlanta GA or even the same as in other local theaters. But there is one outstanding exception: Camelot Theatres. They go their own way, select their own films, and they are oftenmost worthwhile to see. The best way to choose a movie and find out where it is showing is by simply clicking here.

On a few occasions each year, all bets are off about normal movie-going. The major occasion is the annual Palm Springs International Film Festival (778-8979) that runs for almost two weeks in mid-January. It is a big event, even for our always busy village. There are movies screened from morning to late night every day, and there are reception and awards dinners and foreign film dignitairies - and anybody can get tickets, sometimes up to the time of the screening, but it is always wise to buy them (or a pass to everything) well in advance. Some 200 films are screened, half of them foreign, and almost all brand new. Since those have not yet hit the marketplace, many are awful and will never make it, but some are diamonds and future successes. But whatever it is, it's always fun to see things before the masses.

We also have the Palm Springs Film Noir Festival (864-9760) in early June, the Palm Springs International Short Film Festival in early August, and the gay Out on Film Festival in early October, all affecting the normal flow of movies in the main theaters. These festivals are much shorter though, a few days at most.

A few additional movie venues should be mentioned. You have the Desert IMAX Theatre (324-7333) at 68510 East Palm Canyon Drive in Cathedral City with ONE gigantic screen; if you've never seen an IMAX film, make sure you go there. In Cathedral City

Two gay bars in Cathedral City show movies on a regular basis. Sidewinders Bar has a Midweek Movie Madness on Wednesdays at 3 PM, and Barracks Bar has Movie Night on Mondays at 8:30 PM. Of course, you know how fickle gay bars are, so you better check in advance. In addition, the Desert Pride Center in Palm Springs shows DVD movies on Fridays at 6:30 PM.

That said, here is the best of it all: The Kay Francis Film Society, run for us gay guys by two wonderful film buffs. They have a 12-comfortable-seat screening room, where you see all those great movies from times past in private ambiance. They even serve you soda and popcorn as part of your contribution. Now the sad part: They stopped their showings in 2002, hopefully temporarily, but we suspect that begging voices on the phone might get them going again. In the back year versions of our Event Calendar you can see what they used to offer. If you crave such fare, call them at 324-2478 and start begging. In Cathedral City
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Very well hidden up in the Whitewater River canyon is a trout farm with two large trout ponds, around which a good amount of people stand watching their fishing rods. This is run by the Whitewater Trout Company (325-5570), and while we have seen it we have not inquired as much as we should have done in order to bring you a comprehensive story. We will do so, but until then why don't you go up there and see for yourself? 10 miles northwest of Palm Springs

At Lake Cahuilla you can try for rainbow trout, striped bass, and catfish. The lake is part of the 710-acre Lake Cahuilla Recreation Area, where you can also camp, picnick and hit the horseback and hiking trails. Just south of La Quinta

And there's the Salton Sea, also a popular spot for sport fishing. How good the fish from that water is for eating must be unsaid, but does a real sport fisher really care about that??? 25 miles southeast of Indio
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Twice a year, in conjunction with the White Party (at Easter) and with the Gay Pride Celebration (on first weekend in November), we have the Arenas Road Street Festival. It is a gay party, with entertainment at least every hour, and music, and a dance floor, and tons of booths selling all the stuff that traditionally belongs in a gay flea market. Saturday and Sunday all day long. In Palm Springs

The Palm Springs Village Fest takes place on Thursday nights. From around 5 o'clock in the evening, southbound traffic through the heart of Palm Springs becomes quite disturbed, if not to say unhappy, because Palm Canyon Drive is sealed off from cars for a stretch of half a mile. In place of the cars, canvas booths and display tables are erected, lighting is wired, and wares are put on display. For some four hours hundreds or thousands of people mingle in the street, listening to live music, browsing for food, arts, crafts, antiques, and they also look for familiar -- and new -- faces in the crowd. Mixed in with all the vacationing families, for whom this is a "must do", is a considerable gay contingent -- you're bound to meet some of your friends there. Then, at 10 or so, it all starts to pack up, and the traffic will be allowed back. In Palm Springs

The College of the Desert's Street Fair is a great place to find holiday presents, birthday and anniversary gifts, and one-of-a-kind favors. It is located on the beautiful College of the Desert campus, surrounded by date palms and mountain vistas. Over 300 vendors offer you farmers market, food court, arts & crafts, clothing and accessories, new and used items, unique gifts, gourmet goodies, home decoration items, and gifts for any occasion. Saturday and Sunday mornings. In Palm Desert

The latest weekly flea market to open up is the Cathedral City Marketfair which is held on Saturdays from 9 AM to 4 PM on the Civic Center Town Square. In Cathedral City

We want to mention two monthly flea markets, but we have to tell you that they are somewhat iffy. The First Friday is named by its timing, namely the first Friday night of each month from 4 to 9 PM, and it is held on North Palm Canyon Drive from Amado to Tachevah. No traffic is affected, because the stands are placed on the sidewalks and much of the business takes place in the store nextby. Your webmaster lives in the north part of town and has never seen a manifestation of this market since it started in 2002. The flags for it continue to fly from the lightpoles, so something must be going on. In Palm Springs

And a Gay Swap Meet is held in and around Ground Zero Bar, CC (321-0031) on the third Saturday of the month from noon to 5 PM. That is where you should find it, but it has been arranged in earlier years at both the Villa and at the Desert Palms Resort, which may be good to know. In Cathedral City

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Under this heading you will find occasions for gay people to gather, usually to remember, sometimes to act, but always with a united purpose.

While we will add more over time, we start with the annual AIDS Candlelight Memorial, that is held on a Sunday in Mid-May at 7 PM at the Church of St Paul in the Desert (320-7488). It is sponsored by Integrity of the Desert, the local chapter of the gay wing of the Episcopal Church. That said, this is a very ecumenical gathering, light on religion but filled with consoling and uplifting items. Everybody is given a candle, and toward the end of the program those candles are lighted and everybody files out of the church and gathers on the rectory lawn. There the names of those who have died of AIDS here or were related to people living here are read, one by one. Darkness falls while these names are read, and to the bells of the church the congregation dissolves. A most moving experience for everybody. Names can be added to the list by calling Doug Corner at 323-9778. In Palm Springs
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Just as in the major cities around the country we now have a Gay Community Center here in Palm Springs. On December 8, 2002, the Desert Pride Center (327-2313) celebrated its Grand Opening at its first location, which soon proved to be far too small. A year later the Center moved to its current location, upstairs at 611 South Palm Canyon Drive, right in the Sun Center. It is open six days a week: Monday to Friday from 1 to 9 PM, and on Saturdays from 8 AM to 5 PM.

It is a non-profit organization (with IRS tax exempt status) with social, cultural, and educational activities in all directions:
  • Social, cultural, and educational programs
    • Classes
    • Workshops
    • Club activities
    • Financial and estate planning
    • Adoption education
  • Information and referrals
    • Community referrals
    • Tourist information
    • Community bulletin board
    • Library and archives
  • Community wellness programs
    • Medical and mental health referrals
    • Prevention and education
    • Sexually transmitted disease education
    • 12-step meetings
  • ... and more
You don't have be a member of the Desert Pride Center to take part in its activities (but you may want to be a member anyway). Many gay clubs and organizations have meetings at the Center, such as:
  • A.I.D.S. Theatre Company
  • American Veterans for Equal Rights
  • Club 300
  • Crystal Meth Anonymous
  • Desert Dyners
  • Desert Winds Freedom Band
  • Gay Men's Discussion Group
  • Gay Spiritual Circle
  • Greater P S Pride
  • Great Outdoors
  • Jews in the Desert
  • Living with HIV in Recovery (an AA group)
  • Minglez
  • Off Center Theatre Group
  • P S Front Runners and Walkers
  • P S Boyz of Leather
  • P S Leather Order of the Desert (PSLOD)
  • P S Pozabilities
  • Stonewall Democrats
  • Transgendered Outreach Support Group
There are also language classes, such as 'Beginning Spanish' and 'Basic American Sign Language', and lectures on philosophy, aging, religion, and blood pressure screening. And on and on. Go to the Desert Pride Center's website!
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You get a measure of the gay presence in our little towns (remember that there are well below 200,000 people here) by looking at the flora of gay rags: We have 5 (FIVE!) magazines, and they are all eminently viable. One could think that five would be a bit repetitious ("How much gay stuff is there to report?"), but each has its niche, its style, its readers. All are free for the picking, mostly inside gay establishments, but some are starting to be found in no-money vending machines in the streets. Obviously, there is no total nudity portrayed. (Shall we say "yet"?) Advertising pays the costs of the magazines, and there is usually much more ads than text content. Don't let that scare you - there is plenty to read in most of the rags, and the ads are not boring.

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The first magazine we'll discuss is Mega-Scene (327-5178), with the look and feel of a newspaper. It has excellent writing and good reporting, and does not shy away from controversy. Most events in which gay men like you might be interested get at least a perfunctory notice. Mega-Scene has been around since the beginning of time, under the stewardship of Bob Hoven, who occasionally
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makes an appearance as the Royal Duchess Ingeborg of Lapland of the Cosmic Court. The paper falls apart in two sections: the first contains local and world gay news stories, and the second is devoted to arts and entertainment. In the first section, Bob Hoven writes the lead editorial and also a secondary "Final Comment". We also find letters to the editor, notices of events, past and future, interspersed with jokes for
comic relief, also a gossip section written by Bob Hoven, and several regular columnists cover mind & body, spirit, tax, law, gardening, and home design. In the second section you'll find everything related to entertainment, but also spillovers of the general event notices in the first section, plus astrology and classified ads (mostly "Social Groups"), and finally a few pages covering the scene in Las Vegas.

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The Bottom Line (323-0552) is the Palm Springs coffee table magazine, suitable for the most pretentious gay or gay-friendly environments. Like Mega-Scene, it has been around for many years, since 1980 if we are correct. It changed hands some years
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ago, and its mission, according to its former owner, was to be "devoted to the positive image of the gay community". That meant a feel-good magazine, something that gets quite a bit monotonous in the long run. Right at the start of the new regime, the Bottom Line became much different, with opinions that at times were quite frank and, shall we say, controversial. Today, as
the elegant magazine is has become, it has lost most of those sharp claws in deference to its full-color, full-page advertisers, but it does have a plethora of interesting articles. This is a magazine that you can easily spend some time enjoying. Let's flip through a random issue: we find an editorial, letters to the editor, gossip columns, party reviews, events of gay interest, local and world news, celebrity profiles, social issues, film events, eat & drink, book reviews, art, fitness, psychology, dear Abby, health, sex, a day-by-day calendar, horoscope. And, of course, ads of all kinds (cars and beds and houses) which pay the bills. There are no classified ads at all.

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The Bottom Line is immaculately "clean" since the day in the late 90's, when it spun off its leather and bar scenes and its classified ads, all that dirty fun, into a new sister publication named Pulp (323-0552). At the time of its inception, it began as a poor little black-and-white
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information booklet, hastily put together, containing classified ads and a description of our gay bars and not much more. However, just like its older sister, it has grown over time and it now quite a magazine in its own right. It is distictly less elegant than the Bottom Line, but its place is, after all, not on a coffee table. Don't worry, though: Pulp is no porn
or even very sexy, and much of the content would be perfectly appropriate for the Bottom Line. Most of the writing consists of practical advice articles, where to find what on Internet, psychology oriented stuff, gossip, recent celebrity quotes, dear Abby, book and CD reviews, all this naturally from a gay vantage point. There are also news briefs, party pictures, and a huge selection of classified ads (like a small Frontiers magazine). Finally, a daily calendar, lists of special events, museums and other attractions, and social organizations, a crossword puzzle, horoscopes, and comic strips. A few pages are devoted to the Inland Empire. Pulp has some but not overwhelmingly much general advertising. And the gay bars are nowhere to be found!

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While all the other gay magazines appear every other week, the Desert Daily Guide (320-3237) hits the street every week like clockwork, and it is the most practical of all the gay magazines. Its claim to fame ever since its inception in 1994 is its daily calendar, detailing every minute happening in the gay community, with a
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natural emphasis on the bars. In the beginning it was printed on thick, cardboard-like paper, so could never stay folded. Those clumsy days are over, but a drink spilling over its sturdy paper would still be taken in stride. The Desert Daily Guide is mainly an advertising medium, and it does pack'em
in. Mostly local ads for your daily needs (haircuts, hardware, eats), and its classified section has everything from houses for a lifetime to escorts for an hour. As for reading material (except the day-by-day, hour-by-hour listing of events), it is sparse. An editorial by the owner, Mike Luke, a dear Abby, a leather column, a cooking recipe, a set of party pictures, a cartoon, a few lists (bars in Palm Springs, Los Angeles and the Inland Empire, Palm Springs resorts, restaurants, organizations and community services), and that's it. This is a practical tool, not literature.

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The fifth gay magazine here in Palm Springs is actually shared with San Diego, and that is Buzz (324-8299). One would think that San Diego would overwhelm Palm Springs in content; not so. Yes, a few pages more, but not a whole lot, so it is fully justified to include Buzz in our list of local gay magazines. It is almost exclusively given to the fun in life. One section is devoted to each location, and then there are health & fitness, entertainment, columns, and trash. The Palm Springs section has a club calendar (list of scheduled events in the bars), buzz pix (smiling faces in the bars), buzzin' (gossip not only about the bars), and sundry reviews and interviews (restaurants, people, etc.), and a small number of classified ads. The entertainment section covers music, stage, film, books, and fashion. The columns section has one item for seniors, a dear Abby, horoscopes, and, (wow!) celebrity birthdays. The trash section? We leave you guessing.

Here is table with summary information about our five local gay magazines. For this, we used only one single issue of each (the ones you see depicted above, dated around Labor Day 2004), and naturally the page numbers will vary from issue to issue.

MagazineFrequencySizePagesAd
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Bottom LineBiweekly8-1/2 x 11"1448361
BuzzBiweekly8-1/2 x 11"924844
Desert Daily GuideWeekly7 x 8-1/2"1007525
Mega-SceneBiweekly11 x 14"683731
PulpBiweekly8-1/2 x 11"723339

Let's also mention another freebie, the Desert Post Weekly. It is not a gay magazine, but it is very gay-friendly and fun to read. It looks like nothing, but it is a little Village Voice in the desert.
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It is hard to believe, but in the beginning of the 90's this rapidly growing gay community did not have its own Gay Pride. It started in the mid-90's with a parade in May, not on Palm Canyon Drive, oh no, but on Mesquite Avenue, from somewhere near Gene Autry Trail all the way to Demuth Park, a distance of almost a mile, and there were literally hundreds of onlookers. The end of the parade was the festival grounds in the park, and in spite of it charging no entrance fee it was surrounded by thick tarp to prevent any minors from looking inside. It was fun, and it was hot, and the shirts were off, and we were free, just as free as our brothers in West Hollywood and San Diego and New York, finally.

It did not take many years before we were on Palm Canyon, however, and now we were there in the much more temperate November. The festival was conveniently located on "our" Arenas Road block. When we soon grew out of that site the festival moved diagonally across Calle Encilia to the empty grass field there of late White Party Tea Dance fame. Now that was a huge space, that lasted exactly two years until it was too small, and again we had to move, now to the Angels Stadium in Sunrise Park. "Too big and too far away" was the howl, and this website helped in the howling. We soon bit our tongue, because the current space is not too big at all and the mile distance from the parade has not hampered any attendance. Where do we move when the stadium is not enough?

The Greater Palm Springs Pride is scheduled on the first weekend in November, which means that if there is an election it is usually a couple of days away. The parade is packed with candidate "floats" (convertible cars) and many booths feature the candidates themselves. It is now a big weekend, noticed by the Desert Sun newspaper on its first page (which was not always the case), only outspaced by the concurrent, all important Golf Cart Parade in Palm Desert, that is the big headline grabber.

On Sunday, the festival always packs the stadium to capacity, often with long lines to get in, while Saturday is the much better day to be there, because you can move around freely. The Sunday parade used to march from south to north, making it impossible to photograph well into the sun. Somebody finally noticed, and it was no big hassle to turn it around, and now the parade is a great spectacle also on film - only that the weather should be warmer than in 2003, with its long-sleeved flannel shirts. Isn't it nice always to have something to complain about? The estimated number of onlookers always seems exaggerated (how about 30,000!), but there are indeed several thousand of both us and them coming out for the parade. Except Mayor Kleindienst in 2003, and he lost the election two days later. The gay parade is an important event!

We give you our own photographic reports of the Pride festivities of selected years on this website, only we wish we had started doing that back in the Demuth Park era. Well, we wish we had had Internet then, too.

For those of us who have stamina enough to take two contiguous weekends of incessant celebration, we have the Palm Springs Leather Pride on the weekend immediately following the Greater Palm Springs Pride. Of course real men have such stamina and strength, and if there ever are any real men it's the leathermen. So Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert (PSLOD) (272-5553) arranges all sorts of taxing events, centered around Barracks Bar (321-9688). Of course, other bars and venues also play along with the leathermen, and much of the activities are done in the form of home assignments. Contact PSLOD for details.
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Palm Springs is acknowledged as one of the premier golf resort capitals in the world. Here are 73 of the golf courses in the vicinity of Palm Springs - all you have to do is choose:
  • In Bermuda Dunes: Bermuda Dunes Country Club
  • In Cathedral City: Cathedral Canyon Country Club, Date Palm Country Club, Desert Princess Country Club, Outdoor Resorts / RV Resort and Country Club
  • In Desert Hot Springs: Desert Crest Country Club, Desert Dunes Country Club, Hidden Springs Country Club, Mission Lakes Country Club, Sands RV Country Club
  • In Indian Wells: Desert Horizons Country Club, Eldorado Country Club, Golf Resort at Indian Wells, Indian Wells Country Club, The Vintage Golf Center
  • In Indio: Heritage Palms Golf Course, Indio Municipal Golf Club, The Plantation, President's Club at Indian Palms, Rancho Casa Blanca Country Club
  • In La Quinta: The Club at PGA West, Indian Springs Golf Course, La Quinta Country Club, La Quinta Resort & Club, Palm Royale Country Club, PGA West Resort, The Quarry at La Quinta, Rancho La Quinta Country Club, The Tradition
  • In Palm Desert: Avondale Golf Club, Bighorn Golf Club, Chaparral Country Club, Del Webb's Sun City Palm Desert Golf Club, Desert Falls Country Club, Desert Willow Golf Course, Emerald Desert Country Club, The Golf Center at Palm Desert, Indian Ridge Country Club, Ironwood Country Club, The Lakes Country Club, Marrkesh Country Club, Marriott's Desert Springs Resort, Monterey Country Club, Oasis Country Club, Palm Desert Country Club, Palm Desert Greens Golf & Tennis Club, Palm Desert Resort Country Club, Palm Valley Country Club, Portola Country Club, Santa Rosa Country Club, Shadow Mountain Country Club, Suncrest Country Club, Woodhaven Country Club
  • In Palm Springs: Canyon Country Club, Canyon South Course, Mesquite Golf & Country Club, O'Donnell Golf Club, Palm Springs Country Club, Seven Lakes Country Club, Tahquitz Creek Golf Resort, Tommy Jacobs Bel Air Greens
  • In Rancho Mirage: The Club at Morningside, Desert Island Golf & Country Club, Mission Hills Country Club, Rancho Las Palmas Country Club, Rancho Mirage Country Club, The Springs Club, Sunrise Country Club, Tamarisk Country Club, Thunderbird Country Club, Westin Mission Hills Resort
  • In Thousand Palms: Ivey Ranch Country Club, Tri-Palms Estate Country Club
To choose where to play is indeed difficult, and to choose right is impossible! How about joining our gay Stonewall Golfers (318-1328 or EMAIL HERE) and then go with the flow? This golf club includes all levels of players, from beginners to Tigers. They play at least twice a month at local golf courses and also schedule golf dates at golf courses elsewhere in southern California. A autumn fundraising tournament, called "Pride on the Links", raises money for worthy causes, such as Gay Associated Youth (GAY) (776-1744) and the Desert Pride Center (327-2313).

There are two annual gay or gay-friendly golf tournaments of note: The Rainbow Challenge Golf Tournament on Memorial Day Weekend in late May, and the Charity Golf Tournament on Gay Pride Weekend in early November. Of course, the Stonewall Golfers have all the details.
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Some of the gyms listed here have a substantial percentage of the clients gay. Percentages given are our guess -- those we have no clue about show no percentage. These gyms should cover most of our needs to be gorgeous:
  • Basic Gym (320-1009) In Palm Springs
  • Gold's Gym (360-0565) 40% In Palm Desert
  • Gold's Gym (322-4653) 80% In Palm Springs
  • Pinnacle Athletic Club (568-0373) In Palm Desert
  • Pinnacle Athletic Club (564-7800) In La Quinta
  • 24 Hour Fitness (324-0504) 50% In Cathedral City
  • World Gym (564-9822) In La Quinta
  • World Gym (773-5711) 50% In Palm Desert
  • World Gym (327-7100) 90% In Palm Springs
The Palm Springs World Gym is the second largest (30,000 square feet) World Gym in the -- world. It is "a straight-friendly gay gym" (owner's words).

The standard everywhere is top-notch. None of the gyms serves for anything but workouts (and maybe a discreet flirt here and there), so stick to your task at hand. You'll enjoy it a lot!
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We have 46 pages devoted to listings of "Physicians" in the telephone Yellow Pages for our valley (ref "Desert Pages" 2004), we have an abundance of old people and also an unbelievable amount of money floating around here. These facts combined guarantee that there is a ton of skilled hands to take care of any ailment that would befall us. Your webmaster thought so, too, but he is not quite so sure about it any longer. Not after his attempt to rid his left eye of cataracts, a trivial pursuit that turned into a disaster, something that you can read about on this website.

If you have found a great, reliable doctor, good for you! Hold on to him or her and don't let go. If you don't have one, use all the references you can find in your pursuit of one. Don't give up until you really feel that you are in good hands. Advertising and charm do not a great anything make, and surely not a great doctor either. If you don't have any other, more personal leads, you could always take a look at the list of health professionals on our Help page; they are all gay or gay-friendly, and that is at least something.

Many visits to the doctor can be eliminated if you choose to keep yourself healthy and in good shape by eating right and exercise (you knew it, eh?). Well, it is true, and many in this valley keep themselves healthy by just doing that, and also, as needed, making use of holistic healers, such as chiropractors, acupuncturists, herbalists, and practitioners of various forms of ancient Oriental medicine. You will find some of these facilities on our Help page as well. For a general overview of what is available to gay men, you ought to attend the Men's Health Forum at Desert Pride Center, PS (327-2313), which meets monthly on the 1st Wednesday from 8 to 9 PM (doublecheck before you show up)? You may become too busy taking care of your health to have time for doctors.
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There is an abundance of both desert hiking and mountain hiking around Palm Springs. You owe it to yourself to join the Great Outdoors of Palm Springs (Roger at 416-2673), which is the Palm Springs chapter of the largest gay outdoor recreational organization in the West. Its outings include hiking, overnight camping, houseboating, trails training and mountain climbing - and also pool parties. It also does some things indoors, like monthly bowling and monthly board games. If you prefer to hike on your own, please click here for a our special Hiking Trails page right on this site.
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